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Saturday, June 14, 2025
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Sean O’Grady posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 15, 2025
Condolences to Amy’s family and friends, I am saddened to learn of her passing and will remember her as the kind, funny, wild hearted, beautiful person I knew her as. Rest in Peace Amy.
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jay posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, September 25, 2025
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My favorite thing about Amy is her humanness. She was a full person with flaws, bad habits, pet peeves, things that made her laugh, cry. I’ve never seen so many sunflowers, or maybe I never noticed them until now. A strong woman, filled with wisdom and grace. A mother figure who saw and appreciated me the way I needed. Thank you Sunflower.
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Kari Kaplan lit a candle
Tuesday, July 22, 2025
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I am devastated to hear this sad news of Amy's passing! Amy worked for 3 summers as our Camp Director at one of our day camps and she was a light to our campers and staff! Amy always knew how to calm down an anxious camper or sit and be still with a staff member that just needed to talk. She was thoughtful, compassionate, and dedicated to helping all around her be their best self. Prayers for comfort and peace to her sons, her family, and friends! We are all better for knowing you and the love that you shared with us.
Kari Kaplan
Chief Operations Officer
Girl Scouts of Connecticut
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Mike Aloisi lit a candle
Friday, July 4, 2025
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I just heard this shocking and heartbreaking news. Although Amy and I lost touch years ago, she will always have a special place in my heart. She was one of a kind. My sincere and deepest condolences to Linda, Jerry, Nicole, and the rest of her family. God Bless you all and may she rest in peace.
Mike Aloisi
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Vipan Gupta uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 24, 2025
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I will miss our very intimate moments with you my friend and I love you so much
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ellen thomas posted a condolence
Sunday, June 15, 2025
I will never forget meeting Amy Alfano. When my oldest was struggling to meet his milestones, she came to me, along with a small group of very special Middlebrook teachers and she helped me be a young first time mom with a child with developmental delays. She always came back and checked in on me. She always told me about HER SONS and HOW PROUD she was of each and every one of them. Every few weeks she would check in with me. It meant everything.
She is one of the angels, those moms and dads in and around town, who have stood by me, thick and thin. I was scared, so scared, that I would never hear the words: Mom or I love you. But finally at 2 1/2 years old I heard my son say them. Muffled and rough but I heard them. I rushed to Amy to tell her and she said, "See! Keep Going Momma!"
So I did. I kept going. To PT, OT, speech and everything she told me to do, I did. My son is thriving, thanks to Amy.
I wanted to give something back to her. I wanted to help her like she helped me. I knew she loved teaching Science and 4th and 5th grade, so when an amazing school adminstrator asked,
"Do you know Amy?! Would should she come to Jane Ryan?!" I yelled enthusiastically, "Yes!!!"
I can still Amy, on the phone, saying, "Thank you!" And me responding with, "No Amy! Thank you!" Over and over again!
Amy and I both love teaching. We love going to school events and students' games. We both love learning and laughing. We both love schools. Amy LOVED her students. She LOVED you! I know because she talked about you all, all of you, all the time! She loved that melted crayon sign that hung high in her classroom that said her name, boldly, proudly. I know because she showed my son and I on our first day at Jane Ryan. And she was beaming! The biggest smile.
My last conversation with Amy was silly, simple, hopeful, about pedicures, Christopher and how well our sons were doing, and the upcoming field day. She was happy, light, and that is how
I will remember her.
Amy is one of those amazing people,
angels, who just HELP, who just TEACH, who just CARE because it is who they are , in their heart and soul. And although she is not here, I CHOOSE to believe she will continue to do these amazing things for us.
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Riah lit a candle
Saturday, June 14, 2025
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Sangeeta Gidwani lit a candle
Saturday, June 14, 2025
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I can only remember Amy's bright smile and her ability to connect with every student at Frenchtown. I worked alongside Amy for many years and she gave 100% to her students even while raising her young boys. Amy also made me laugh, especially at times when I really needed to. May God hold Amy tight. Such a tragic loss for our FT community.
Sangeeta Gidwani ☀️
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Angelica uploaded photo(s)
Friday, June 13, 2025
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Ms. Alfano,
We cherished all the days we had with Ms. Alfano. We were grateful of the good times and happiness she brought us; but now far away from all who knew her, but always in our hearts. She showed us through the hard and fun times. She sought out the fun and everything for everyone. She was our flashlight through every month, week, day, hour, minute, and second in school and for her family. We’ve filled our heads with unforgettable memories from the beginning to the end. She was mine and many other students favorite teacher. There was never a time when I didn’t want her as my teacher.
But alas, the time came for her to go. The news came like lightning. Many people were probably shocked or sad and confused. I was all of them. I kept wondering how could have this have happened to her? But and then I thought that I would never see Ms. Alfano again, but later on I knew I was mistaken. We will always see her in our minds.
Always in my mind
Eva Schwartz
5th grade
Jane Ryan 2025
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Joni Kollar uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, June 12, 2025
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I'm on shock! I feel so bad for you all. This is one of my favorite photos. I hope it gives you a little peace. I remember paddle boarding with Amy in Port Jefferson. Please if there is anything you need. Love you all, Joni Kollar
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Tee Doonan lit a candle
Tuesday, June 10, 2025
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Damon Kane Santorelli lit a candle
Tuesday, June 10, 2025
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Pat Grosso-Hill lit a candle
Tuesday, June 10, 2025
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I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Amy. She was a wonderful teacher and enjoyed life to the fullest.
She will be remembered by many for her smile, her love of teaching, and her love of life!
May she rest in peace.
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Lorene Bizinoto posted a condolence
Monday, June 9, 2025
I’m devastated… She was my oldest son’s 5th grade teacher during a very difficult in our lives. She was so supportive and loving. On graduation day she named him the recipient for the “Choose Happy Award”.
Our deepest condolences to the family…
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Jessica Altieri Pinter posted a condolence
Monday, June 9, 2025
I'm am so sorry to hear this heartbreaking news. My condolences to Amy's beloved family and friends.
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Sonya posted a condolence
Monday, June 9, 2025
I am so sorry for your loss. Mrs. Alfano was an amazing teacher! My children had her for second and fifth grades while at Frenchtown. She will always be one of their favorite teachers! May she rest in peace.
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maggie wade posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2025
I am devastated. I knew Mrs. Alfano, when she taught 2nd grade at Frenchtown Elementary School. I was getting ready to switch from Booth Hill School, and my mother took me to see Frenchtown. Mrs. Alfano's classroom was the very first room I was shown at the school. I remember she showed me her skylight that she had in her classroom. It fit the vibe because the ceilings were so tall. She was very lively and enthusiastic about what she taught, and passionate about her students. She cared about her students, and even students who weren't even her own. When I was in 5th grade, my classroom was right next to hers. One day during school, she played cheeseburger in paradise for her class. Our class could hear it through the wall and we all laughed and sang along. At our 5th grade graduation party at Vazzy's, when car wash started playing, she frolicked over to the center of the room, and danced the night away with the kids. She loved getting in on the action. She was truly such an upbeat and kind person. She always made her students laugh. I also remember when 5th grade graduation practice got really boring for a lot of us, and she would always crack jokes to make us smile. I cannot believe she is gone. My deepest and most heartfelt condolences to her sons, family, and friends. She was a one of a kind person and teacher, and anyone who knew her would tell you the same thing. She left a tremendous impact on so many. Heaven gained an angel. Rest in paradise, Mrs. Alfano.
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Emilia posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2025
She was a beloved teacher and I was hoping I would get her for 5th grade.
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Anna posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2025
To Linda,Gerry,Nicole,Steve and the boys;
I am so sorry to hear about Amy. She was a wonderful person. She will be sadly missed.
I will always remember our cherish times we all had boating.
Sending loving thoughts and prayers.
Remember all the wonderful times you had with her and cherish those memories
Anna
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Carol Weir Asquith lit a candle
Sunday, June 8, 2025
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Vipan Gupta uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, June 8, 2025
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I will miss our very intimate moments with you my friend and I love you so much
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Carol Weir Asquith Posted Jun 8, 2025 at 11:16 AM
To Linda, Jerry, Steve, Anthony, Chris and Matthew, I’m sending you my loving thoughts and prayers. My heart is broken hearing of your devastating loss. May her memory be a blessing to all of you and may the memories of happier times prevail and help you through this terribly sad time. So sorry I can’t be there, but I will be with you in spirit.
With love, Carol Weir Asquith,.
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Brooklyn Rondon uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, June 7, 2025
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Ms. Alfano was an amazing part of my life, she truly touched my heart. I ate lunch with her regularly, she stood up for me when people were unkind. I was one of the students who looped with her in Jane Ryan for 4th and 5th grade. Not only did she touch my heart, but many others as well. She came to my sports events and plays to cheer me on. We had a connection like no other with any other teachers. You see, I didn’t have the easiest time in my personal life at home and such. In a result, I wasn’t the best in school, I hated every teacher I had, until Ms. Alfano. She would always make jokes to make me laugh, she was a kind soul who could brighten up anyone’s day. Once I got to middle school, we emailed back and forth regularly, she continued to come to sports events and such. We were just recently, about maybe less than a month ago trying to plan a time to get together. Like at a cafe or something. That is, until I heard the news. I didn’t know what true pain was until I found out. This person who I loved so much, and who understood me, who was there through thick and thin, she was gone. It took me a while to accept it, I was upset for days, and I still am. Me and a group of friends who also looped with her, all went to Jane Ryan to draw chalk outside her room. Although, at the sight of her classroom, looking in through the window on the door, most of us burst into tears. How could she be gone? We had just found out that day so we all felt a mix of sadness and confusion. However, some of the people who went to draw chalk beside her classroom with me and I had a very big lacrosse tournament today. We all drew eyeblack on our faces, normally we just to triangles or something, but we drew the letter A instead. Representing Ms. Alfano, sure enough, we won the tournament 2/3 games, and were in the championship. I had 3 shots, one of them being a tie breaker in overtime, the winning shot. I also had several assists and a amazing interception. Ms. Alfano encouraged me to always do my best, she was my motivation. One of the things I wrote with chalk was, “Ms Alfano, you taught me things that I can’t learn in a book.” This means kindness, love, being caring for others, and more. I always used to think to myself when I didn’t know what to do, I would ask myself, “What would Ms. Alfano do?” This helped me immensely. I will always and forever love, and miss Ms. Alfano, and for her, I will excel in whatever I pre-sue. Wether it is teaching, a doctor, a nurse, or anything else, I will tell her story to my peers and coworkers. I currently hope to become a pro lacrosse player, I will tell my teammates, or when I am older and I am a coach the kids i teach lacrosse to. I am grateful to have had such an amazing person like Ms. Alfano in my life. I hope the Alfano family, T, and others who were close with Ms. Alfano can get past this sad loss.
With love, Brooklyn
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Diane Severino Posted Jun 7, 2025 at 10:54 PM
Brooklyn,
You have an amazing bond with Mrs. Alfano. Just keep doing what you're doing. She will always be with you. Your heart is full because of the bond you two had with each other. I remember her timing you at recess when you were running laps. Rest in peace
Xo Mrs. Severino
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Thomas and Lucy Deluca posted a condolence
Saturday, June 7, 2025
Our deepest condolences to Linda and Jerry Steve and the Alfano children . We are broken hearted to hear of your loss . We loved Amy and will miss her dearly . We are here for you in your time of grief and always . Lucy and Tom Deluca.
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Pat Grosso-Hill lit a candle
Saturday, June 7, 2025
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My sincere condolences to the Alfano family. Amy was a great friend and a wonderful teacher. She will be sadly missed by all.
Pat Grosso-Hill
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The family of Amy L. Alfano uploaded a photo
Saturday, June 7, 2025
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