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Visitation at Funeral Home
1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Sunday, March 2, 2025
Abriola Parkview Funeral Home
419 White Plains Rd.
Trumbull, Connecticut, United States
Monday
3
March
Mass of Christian Burial
10:00 am
Monday, March 3, 2025
Notre Dame Of Easton Church
640 Morehouse Rd.
Easton, Connecticut, United States
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Vincent Rosalia posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 19, 2025
Tom was my boss for a period of time at Veritext many years before his recent position. He was with Veritext then left and returned. They realized how excellent he was so the rehired hired him. He was a one of the best bosses/ mentors I ever had in my 28 years of sales. A great leader and most of all a fair man and a great guy. RIP Tom. I will not forget you.
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Heather posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 5, 2025
Tom,you were amazing person.You were exceptional son,brother,husband,FATHER,nephew,cousin,boss,friend just amazing person all around.You were that person we could always count on.You made it happen and you made it look so easy. You wanted everyone to win and make it.You were the rock in our family. You were an amazing example to follow we could never fill your shoes but we can try to follow in them. There was so much more time we should of had with you this is truly unfair..This was a hard hit that our family took and the hole that is in our hearts will always have your name there. You were one of my biggest fans calling me DYNAMITE. After your Dad ,my uncle ,No one can call me that like you did .I will truly miss that.You.made everything look so easy and you never asked for help.I truly thank you for being that person that stood out ,did it, and never complained. Our family will never be the same without you but we will continue to make you proud.Tom thank you.I Love You.XOXO
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Maria Marcoccia posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 4, 2025
Kay, Katie, Rose, & Kenny and family,
I am so terribly sorry for the loss of Tommy. I am shocked and so upset that I didn't find out earlier to attend the services. May God give you all strength and courage to get through this very difficult time. May Tommy always rest in eternal peace. I am certain that his dad stood at the gates of heaven to greet him when he arrived in Heaven. With all my love always, Maria Marcoccia
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Allison Davis posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, March 4, 2025
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Tom and I worked together for the last 9 years. I can close my eyes and hear him say "Ms. Davis, what can I do for ya." He was always willing to help and most importantly listen. Always asked about my daughter and was one of the most genuine people I have had the honor to work with.
Tom, I will miss our chats. I have always believed that people cross our paths for a reason and I am so grateful for that to have crossed paths with you. https://s3.amazonaws.com/skins.funeraltechweb.com/tribute-gestures/v2/cross.png
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Phyllis Meropoulos posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 4, 2025
Rosemary and family: I’m so deeply sorry about Tom. I cherish the childhood memories of a beautiful family. Sending love and prayers.
Phyllis Lombardi Meropoulos
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Kevin Crowley posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 4, 2025
Tom will be missed. I worked withTom and never did I find a person who would work harder or longer. Tom loved his family above all and cared for his employees and associates as if they were family. Tom was a warm and gentle human being who was loved by all.
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Anthony Bonnanzio uploaded photo(s)
Monday, March 3, 2025
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Lynne uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, March 1, 2025
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Kristy Villa uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, March 1, 2025
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Sending much love & light to Tom's family. He is a great man - I loved every moment we worked together. We shared birth days (11/19) and he was always so thoughtful to reach out. We loved to laugh (very loudly) together. Tom will be missed greatly!
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Rashid Dar (Veritext) lit a candle
Friday, February 28, 2025
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Condolences to the Esposito family and friends. I'm sure your experiences and memories of Tom will provide comfort in this difficult time. Tom was a "Gentle Giant". Wish you all the best.
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Michelle Coelho lit a candle
Friday, February 28, 2025
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Cate, Sarah,Tom and Jack, We are so sorry to hear about Tom’s passing. May all the happy memories with him help you get through this difficult time.
From your old neighbors.
Tony, Michelle, Allison, and Tiffany Coelho
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wendy cohan posted a condolence
Friday, February 28, 2025
so sorry for your loss. i had the pleasure of working for tom many years ago. amazing man. wendy cohan
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Carrie Cosenza lit a candle
Thursday, February 27, 2025
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I had the pleasure of working with Tom throughout the years and I was so fortunate to call him a friend. He was such a warm man, always available to offer advice and encouragement. Everyone loved Tom and he will always be remembered as the greatest guy. There are no words to adequately express how sorry I am, but please know he was always quick to tell me how much he loved his family and friends. Tom was the best, and I will miss him dearly. - Carrie Cosenza
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Renee Martinez posted a condolence
Thursday, February 27, 2025
I had the pleasure of working with Tom a couple of times over the years. . He was a great leader and genuinely nice person. Tom, you will be missed.
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David P Couture uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, February 27, 2025
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Dear Esposito Family,
I'm deeply sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Tom will truly be missed by everyone who knew him.
As you know Tom loved his times on the boat and whenever my family and I would visit from Arizona Tom would welcome us with a big smile and a hug and a boat ride with him and Ken!
The picture I included here is from the beach behind Ken’s home and I took it the day I saw Tom last August. It has a new meaning for me that I wanted to share.
With Sympathy,
David Couture
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Joe Scotto posted a condolence
Thursday, February 27, 2025
Tom was a great guy. I had the good fortune of working with him for many years. I always enjoyed his humor, his professionalism and his approach. He was a true leader and great biz partner. He’ll be missed by so many
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Debra Neiderfer posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
Tom was the greatest Boss i ever worked for. Professionally, I can say i absolutely adored and loved him. Always had a great sense of humor but knew when to be serious with his abacus, as I called it. He could create a bid for a case like nobody else. He was so confident. I was so confident in him.
He always spoke lovingly of his wife and children. Tom assisted my son in finding a full-time job after college when he was in need of help and mentoring. The most thoughtful man.
Though I left Veritext, we stayed in touch by text. He was always "living the dream...living the dream"
There is never an explanation when a tragedy like this happens. It is so profound on so many levels. But mostly - for his family. I hope you circle around each other ...hold each other close....and take one day of grief at a time.
Tom, I will always miss you. You were the greatest.
Debra Neiderfer
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john and donna lagano posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
onna Sansone Lagano
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It is not often that I am at a loss for words but to say sorry is just inadequate. I will always remember Tommy as a gentle happy soul with a beautiful smile and a contagious laugh. Being around Tom and listening to him speak of his family with such pride and love makes you realize that he is all thats right with the world. The world needs more like him. I am keeping my Aunt and my cousins Kenny, Rosemary and their families in prayer. To Catie and children you are all in my prayers as well. Tommy this is not good bye but see ya again soon. Kiss your dad for me. Love you very much Tommy!
Love Donna & John
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Greg Constantine posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
I had the privilege of working with Tom for the past 9 years and while his brilliance in the industry was unmatched, it was his kindness that will always be remembered. Answering the phone with a heartfelt "Mr. Constantine, what can I do for you" no matter the time or place.
If you ever asked him how he was doing you would get his patented "living the dream." He absolutely loved talking about his family but never forgot to ask about mine. Tom, you will be missed!
"Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. Amen"
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Carlos Cornier lit a candle
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
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Because of Tom, I never collected unemployment. (He always believed in me and gave me a job whenever I needed one.) Tom was one of the best bosses I ever had and he had a great sense of honor. I had a lot of respect for him. You will be missed.
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Chris Eckert posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
Tom, we shared some great times on the golf course the past two years. You were a great guy and like me, a better person than golfer. Hit them straight in Heaven.
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Ira Benjamin posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
Tom, I will miss you, my friend. We worked so closely together for so many years. You were at my interview with Mike Sandler back in 2003, when I first joined Veritext. Your professionalism, loyalty, and your ability to make even difficult situations seem manageable, was extraordinary. Your robust sense of humor was contagious, and made working with you truly enjoyable.
Above all this, you were my friend and confidante. We spoke almost weekly, just shooting the breeze, and I thoroughly enjoyed every moment.
I would start every conversation with, "How're you doin' Tom," and your answer "Livin' the dream, Ira, livin' the dream" still rings in my mind and heart.
I still cannot get my head around the fact that you are no longer with us. I am really devastated.
You always spoke of your family and how proud you were of them, and I join them in mourning this great loss.
Fare thee well, my friend. And keep on "Livin' the dream."
Ira Benjamin
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Anisa Fowler posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
Tom was an amazing man who had drive and passion. He was also hilarious and whenever he entered the Veritext office in Mineola, NY we’d do a silly dance together. We sat together at my first sales conference this year in Orlando and he was dropping gems as always! Tom, you will forever be missed. My condolences to your beautiful family who you always warmly talked about. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
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Hope Matusow posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
I had the privilege of working with Tom for 6 years at Veritext. He was a special person. I was fortunate enough to spend time with him a month ago at our Orlando conference. I will always cherish my memories of Tom. His favorite saying “living the dream”’will always resonate with me. I am sorry for your family’s loss- he will be deeply missed by all! Hope Matusow- Karson
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Scott MacKenzie posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
I had the privilege to meet Tom when I joined Veritext as a colleague in August, 2024. While our time working together was far too brief, Tom's genuine care for the business and his colleagues was evident from my very first interaction with him. Always willing to share his years of experience and expertise, Tom was a mentor and supportive friend to many.
He will be missed dearly by his colleagues here at Veritext. My deepest condolences to his loved ones in this most difficult time.
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John Ward uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
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I had the privilege of meeting Tom last year when he entered our pigeon race, the Tar Heel Classic One Loft Race. We had a brief but meaningful conversation, and I’m grateful we stayed in touch. For those who may not know, Tom was truly one of the finest competitors in the USA. I witnessed it firsthand as his birds excelled in the competition, with one pigeon winning 1st prize at 250 miles and 7th prize at 300 miles. This remarkable pigeon earned the title of the first ACE Pigeon among all the competitors. My heartfelt condolences to his family during this incredibly difficult time. May Tom rest in peace, and may he continue to watch over you all. John Ward
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Christopher Paolini posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
Tom "Butch" was one of my brothers closest friends. Through High School and after spent many wonderful times with Tom. Very saddened from his departure into Heaven. My Condolences to the Entire family.
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john and donna lagano posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
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Jim posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
I met Tom last year at Chris Coynes 60th birthday party. Chris talked often about Tom and the good times they had in college and through the years. Two football buddies. I enjoyed visiting with him. Great man. He will be missed. Jim Y.
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Vickie Sansone Deskin lit a candle
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
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Lisa Vitrella lit a candle
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
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I had very fond memories of growing up with Tommy as a young kid we would play football army all kinds of different things. He was a great friend to grow up in our early years together before he moved to Easton, but there was always the pigeons a long time Of living on Quince Street. My heart goes out to all of you
Lisa Vitrella
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Katy Sankey uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
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At first I thought “I shouldn’t upload a work photo”… but it’s a team photo, and Tom was the centre of the team, wherever he was. This photo was 10 years ago and it has been such a privilege to work with Tom for those years and more. His loss is impossible to comprehend and my whole heart goes out to his family - what an incredible, kind, selfless person the world has lost. He always said “there’s no crying in court reporting” but this will have to be the one exception to the rule. Rest in peace Tom, you will be so badly missed. Thank you for everything.
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The family of Thomas Anthony Esposito uploaded a photo
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
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